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Doing Without: What I Don't Buy

Updated 12/2014 

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Sometimes I feel like the un-normal American. It seems that wherever women are gathered, they love to talk about their shopping habits. Considering that shopping is our responsibility, and it takes up so much of our time (as does cooking) I think we cannot help but talk about food.

The trouble is that I have no idea what these women are discussing. I've never heard of some of these foods. I don't even know what section of the store two women at church were discussing the other day. I've been in that store, but I've never paid any attention to the section where all of the convience foods are located. I admit that I wouldn't know where to find it. The women were discussing a delicious salad that one had brought to a meeting. "After all," reasoned the first, "why make something when you can just buy it?"

This is exactly the opposite of the way I think. Why buy something when you can make it?

Cooking from scratch, especially from bulk and home-grown ingredients, saves me quite a lot of money.

My way of shopping has changed much over the last six years. There are things that I used to buy that just aren't in my budget anymore. Some of them have never been in my budget. (Some of them would never be, as they are not things that I eat or drink anyway, but that many people do).

I've had a lot of comments recently from readers, wondering how I've cut our food budget to $0.40 a day per person. While I've shown you what we are eating, and I've written about how we're eating for less,  I think an important part of our budget is what we aren't eating and what we aren't buying.


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If you've ever wondered what you could cut from your food budget, and you just aren't sure what else you could live without, these lists may give you some food(s) for thought.

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Here are some things I never buy:

Fruit snacks
Granola bars
Potato chips
Crackers. I make my own.
Juice boxes
Powdered drink mixes
Flavored water
Cold cereal. It doesn't matter how inexpensive it is. I will never go back. The children are no longer hungry an hour after breakfast, and a cooked breakfast is so much less money!
Coffee creamer
Grapes. I grow my own and eat them in season
Apricots. I grow my own and glean apricots.
Figs. I grow my own and glean figs.
Pomegranates: Again, home-grown and gleaned.
Cherries, artichokes, zucchini, sugar snap peas. I grow all of these. If they do poorly, we go without.

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Fresh Herbs: I grow lots of fresh herbs. They are easy to grow and there's no need to buy tiny packages of them at the store. Most of my herbs are perennials, so they are not a recurring expense.
Exotic fruits and vegetables
Cake mix
Meat above $2 a pound. In general, I stick to only buying meat that is $1 a pound or less. This usually is hams and turkeys bought on holiday sales, frozen, and used all year-round.

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Deli meat. Instead, we cook hams and turkeys and slice them for sandwiches.
Cookies. I make my own instead.
Applesauce: I make my own, usually with gleaned apples or apples I've bought for .50 a pound.
Bread: I make my own for .25 a loaf.
Bottled salad dressing. I make my own dressing for pennies.
Jelly. Store bought is cheaper (sometimes) but homemade tastes better.

Green Onions The Prudent Homemaker
Green Onions. I bought starts for my garden years ago. I harvest the side shoots, and every year they reseed themselves. They grow all year-round here. I've never had to buy them since! You can read more about this here.

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Lunch meat. We make sandwiches from turkey and hams bought under $1 a pound instead.
Popsicles. These are so easy to make and so inexpensive to make! I have several recipes here.
Pasta sauce. I buy a #10 can of tomato sauce and make my own instead.
Bean Sprouts. In 2005 I bought mung beans in bulk for sprouting. 2 Tbsp will fill a quart canning jar once sprouted. I still have lots of mung beans left.
Alfalfa sprouts. Ditto for what I said about mung beans!

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Fresh tomatoes. We eat the ones from the garden. If the tomatoes don't grow well, we have less.

Baby food. I haven't bought baby food since my third baby. It's really easy and much less money to make my own.

Canned beans. I used to buy these, but prices went up, our family grew, and I learned to cook whole beans. Now I buy beans in a 25 pound bag. I cook up a big batch and freeze bags of beans to use later.
Pasta/Rice a Roni mixes. I make my own instead.
Individually packaged anything.
Organic food. Really. It's too expensive.

Yes, I know that there are coupons for many of those items. I still don't buy them.




Here are some things I almost never buy:

Lettuce. We eat lettuce from our garden. With a packet of 750 lettuce seeds costing under $4, I can plant lettuce for a couple of years for very little. However, it does not grow in the hot months. I will buy lettuce a few times in the hot months, but not very often. I usually buy Romaine hearts at Sam's Club because they are the cheapest lettuce I can find. I only buy lettuce around 4 times a year.

Candy: I limit buying candy to a couple of holidays a year. I make sure to combine coupons and sales whenever possible when I buy candy.

Eggs over 1.25 a dozen. I can still sometimes find eggs at .99 a dozen, I buy 13 dozen, and I make them last until the next sale comes along. (According to the American Egg Board, eggs are good for 4-6 weeks past their expiration date. I have to ration them out to get 13 dozen to last that long, since we can eat 18 for breakfast if we have scrambled eggs).

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Yogurt: I only buy a small container of Greek yogurt on a rare basis when needed as a yogurt starter for making my own yogurt. So far I have only bought one and I have been using my own yogurt as the starter for new batches. If at some point it no longer works, I will get new yogurt to use as a starter, and will then make that one last as long as possible.

Fruits and vegetables that are more than $1 a pound (those that are sold by the pound).  (Update 12/2014: The lowest price for strawberries in my area is $1.25 a pound on sale in season. I make an exception for those to buy them at that price).  I buy in season at the lowest price, which usually means .25 a pound to .79 a pound for most things. 

Out of season produce.

Juice: I have bought apple juice to use in cooking to make fig sauce. I buy this on sale for $1.25 or less for a half-gallon bottle, and I buy 12 or fewer bottles a year.

Soda: Very, very rarely, I will buy a 2-liter bottle of root beer (on sale) for me and my husband for a date. We will have a little bit and make it last for a while.

Tortilla Chips: This is the only kind of chips I buy, and it's rare. I will occasionally have them on taco soup, and rarely for a date night at home with my husband.

Restaurant Meals: We don't eat out but once or twice a year, and then it is only because my mom gave us money for my husband and I to go out for our anniversary or our birthdays (usually not both).  This year we went out once on a date for my husband's birthday.

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Fresh flowers: I've found the least expensive way to have flowers on my table is to grow my own.

I'm sure there are more things that I don't buy that are on the "typical" shopping list, but since I don't buy them, they aren't even things I think about!

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  • Rozy Lass September 30, 2014

    I often serve popcorn (air-popped in a wedding pre...

    I often serve popcorn (air-popped in a wedding present popper that is only 26 years old) with our sandwiches. It provides crunch and is filling without being high calorie. I pop about 1/2 of popcorn and use 1 tablespoon of melted butter to drizzle over it, then a sprinkling of salt.

  • Ashley VBananas August 16, 2014

    In all fairness, when you buy an item in season it...

    In all fairness, when you buy an item in season it's often cheaper because it is being harvested in abundance. Brandy mentions store sales prices...this means the store has decided the price, not the customer. People often stock up on items when the price is low...this makes sense, and is an honest way to save.

  • Ashley VBananas August 16, 2014

    I often feel left out of similar conversations at ...

    I often feel left out of similar conversations at work when my coworkers talk about things they do like going golfing, jet skiing, vacationing, going on cruises, weekend trips, and buying every imaginable gadget and electronic. Being a single mother we live pretty slim compared to my group of peers at work but otherwise compared to many people I know we really live in abundance and I'm grateful for that. One thing I just about never buy anymore are cleaners. I make my own cleaner with amonia. The amonia is cheap and lasts forever. I bought two jugs at Target a few years ago with coupons and still haven't gone through even one yet. It cleans great.

  • Paige Still August 16, 2014

    We have cut the amount of drive thru foods tremend...

    We have cut the amount of drive thru foods tremendously since I am home full time. However, I have severe fibromyalgia and often my family gets sandwiches, frozen, or leftovers from my parents. I would really like some suggestions on how to better incorporate home cooked meals, while dealing with flair ups and pain caused by my disability. I look forward to reading the posts from Brandy and followers of the blog. I have learned so much.

  • Kristen April 07, 2016

    I know that I am two years late to the party, but maybe I can help someone else with a similar issue. While I don't have fibromyalgia, I do have times where I don't have the time or the energy to cook homemade meals from scratch. If you have a big enough freezer, you can freezer cook. I got the idea from "Once a Month Cooking", but people have been doing it for decades. I have a baking day when I have the time and energy. I bake 3 loaves of bread, 3 batches of cookies, a batch of muffins and freeze everything. You can do this for dinners too. Cook up some chicken and spend a day making casseroles for the freezer. On a smaller scale you can double or triple recipes you make each night and store leftovers in the freezer for times when you can't cook. Or you can prep starters for your meal, like browning ground beef with onions. Then you can use it later for casserole or skillet supper and you have cut some of the prep time.
    If you do not have a freezer, you can prep your own dry mixes for muffin mixes, etc which does cut prep time. You can also come up with some easy meals to make from canned food or use your crockpot. I know this is not a perfect solution, because it requires planning, but some ideas.

  • The Prudent Homemaker March 22, 2014

    I know that it is impossible to grow things and se...

    I know that it is impossible to grow things and sell them for those prices. For example, the cost of raising chickens is MUCH more than what I pay for eggs. Since we are in Real Estate and the market here leads the nation--and had a major drop in sales and prices--we have lived with a 70% income loss for several years. Our budget for 9 people for groceries has been $100 a month. In order to feed 9 people for $25 a week, it's important for me to keep my prices as low as possible. I have that budget because that is all that we've had to spend. That said--I have a reader in North Dakota with a garden roughly the same size as mine. Thought she can easily have 6 months of snow, she also has an unheated greenhouse that she uses to extend her growing season. She easily harvests much more than I do, because our summer temperatures cause most prolific crops (tomatoes, beans, zucchini) to stop producing flowers, as it is just too hot. It can (and has) been 90º in March (2004 last time). We have 5-6 months above 90º each year, and summers are 116º on average, and do get hotter. This means there are a lot of things I cannot grow in summer. I recommend checking out Eliot Coleman's books on gardening year-round, which he does in Maine. If gardening is your source of income, I would certainly want to extend that time to allow me to grow year-round.

  • Pam December 31, 2016

    I live in the Sonoran Desert here in Az and in my 25 + years of gardening here have never had my tomatoes stop producing in the summer, they can slow down some. I have been able to harvest them a couple of years into December also. Zukes usually into August but by then we can be tired of eating them everyday, and friends and family run away when they see me coming with a bag lol. I haven't been able to garden these psst 5 years due to ground squirrels, but discovered a chicken moat and mid to late January I am going to start building mine and be able to plant a garden in mid February again! The secret to having your garden survive the heat is shading in the afternoon and watering at night (less evaporation occurs). My family loves okra and I always plant it on the west side of the garden to provide shade for other plants, tomatoes included.
    Gardening provides me with a few benefits, great tasting cheaper food(I grow organically), exercise from prepping, planting, weeding, harvesting and closing it up for a short period of time, and mental solice, the garden is my peaceful spot, where I go to reflect on things while I work without interruption from my husband and children. I also use my garden to help feed my chickens any produce that isn't edible for us the ladies will always eat, not to mention the scraps and melon rinds they love to eat. Here I can grow beets year round so I stopped canning them years ago, why bother?
    I also found a produce distribution this past spring that sells 60lbs of produce for $10, I volunteer at it and get mine for free. I always stop to share with my parents on my way home. Sadly my father passed away in early December and my mother has dementia and will be moving in with us before long. One month we had a ton of tomatoes and I made two batches of spaghetti sauce, adding in some of the zucchini and yellow squash in the distribution too. I also have a good supply of pickles from the cukes another month.
    We were going to sell our property (3.34 acres), but have decided to make some changes to it and fix it up to suit us better. Plus with my mom the less we move her the better off she will be. I miss my garden and having chickens and can hardly wait to do it again. We are applying for a home equity loan in January to be able to fix some of the things and replace the ac/furnace as neither work. We have 2500 sq ft home and use 4 window units to cool it and so far this winter only 2 space heaters to heat it. I don't want to go back into debt(we paid cash in 2011 when real estate was at it's lowest point here), but in the long run the repairs will add to the value and save on the utility bills. Plus if I can garden again and have chickens again even more money saved on food.

  • Paula March 22, 2014

    Celeste, I agree with you. We need to remember th...

    Celeste, I agree with you. We need to remember that everyone has a right to make a living, not just ourselves. I believe in supporting the local business in my small town. I only shop in the city when we have to go there for appointments, never driving there just to shop. If I have no business in the city, I buy out here where we live.If everyone ALWAYS did EVERYTHING as cheaply as possible with no exceptions, wages would be driven even further down than they have been the last few years, and then where would we all be? I limit how much of my business I give to "the world's largest retailer" because the drive to the lowest possible price has driven jobs overseas and things are being manufactured by people who make a couple of dollars a day working for people who are allowed to pollute at will, and where the standard of living for working people is deplorable.It's good to be frugal and reduce our cost of living to be in line with out incomes, but we need to use a balanced approach, or in the long run, there are fewer jobs and less money for everyone.

  • celeste March 22, 2014

    We also live very frugally, but cant't cut eve...

    We also live very frugally, but cant't cut everything on that list because we have a very short growing season, although I do can and freeze a lot for winter use. We also save money in a lot of other ways as well. We are vegetable farmers and sell produce at the farmers market and the income has been very small the last four years, well below the poverty level. The only thing I have to say is that if we sold our produce for the prices you are willing to pay we would not be able to continue farming. If you really need to eat this cheaply that is fine, but I would recommend people who can afford a little more to spend a little bit more and support local farmers and businesses. Just my two cents :)

  • Paula September 28, 2013

    I don't know how to make cottage cheese, but I...

    I don't know how to make cottage cheese, but I wonder if others have trouble finding the large curd variety. For years, I've only seen the small curd.

  • Kristen April 07, 2016

    I know I'm commenting years later, but someone might still be wondering. Cottage cheese is similar to paneer. You can find recipes online. You basically heat up some milk, add some vinegar or lemon juice. The curds separate from the whey. You drain it. Wring out all the liquid using a cloth. Then you press it flat and cut it into cubes. I love fresh, but you can fry it too. To make cottage cheese, you would add some heavy cream to the curds. It's been a while since I've made it, but as I recall, it is small curd.

  • Kat W. September 28, 2013

    Does anyone know how to make homemade cottage chee...

    Does anyone know how to make homemade cottage cheese, and would it be cheaper than buying the store brand? My stepson LOVES cottage cheese, and we go through a lot of it.

  • Kat W. September 28, 2013

    Wow! what a great list. I thought I was very fruga...

    Wow! what a great list. I thought I was very frugal, but you have given me lots more great ideas! One note on furniture-- we have trash picked some great things: bunk beds, chairs, and bedside tables. The rest of our furniture was donated to us by friends and family when they decided to upgrade and get new furniture.We drink cold water from glass jars stored in the fridge, and the girls drink milk with dinner. As an occasional treat, I make "grape soda." Pour a 2 liter bottle of cold unflavored sparkling water into a pitcher, and add a defrosted can of grape juice concentrate. Stir gently. We make it last longer by serving it over ice.

  • The Prudent Homemaker September 07, 2013

    I don't have the income to pay more money for ...

    I don't have the income to pay more money for food. I do the best I can with what I have. I am grateful for the times when we can afford to buy eggs on sale for .99. Right now I cannot even afford to buy those.

  • E September 07, 2013

    Have you looked into the living conditions of the ...

    Have you looked into the living conditions of the chickens that lay egg that you buy for .99?

  • Loyda Coulombe July 26, 2013

    www.makeyourownyogurt.com I used his instructions...

    www.makeyourownyogurt.comI used his instructions on making yogurt and now its the only way I make it. No crockpot needed.. Just a cooler.....

  • The Prudent Homemaker July 08, 2013

    Kyle, I will serve pickles as well (homemade) wi...

    Kyle, I will serve pickles as well (homemade) with sandwiches, and fruit. I live in Las Vegas. It was 118º all week last week. We drink water. Water from the tap does not get cold. I fill plastic bottles and put them in the fridge, and then I pour from those. The chlorine will dissipate that way, and then the water is cold. We drink a lot of water. Juice is a luxury and a very rare treat.We are not on the go a lot, as that would require a gas expenditure. If we were, I would get some thermoses or insulated water bottles for everyone. I do have one insulated water bottle and one larger thermos that I have taken on occasion.I got my sliver from Amazon. I have a post planned on sandwiches where I will show you what I am using. I had bought one at a garage sale but the motor died out. We decided to go with a nicer one and it has been holding up well. I am making ham sandwiches this week after I cook a ham and make some bread, so I'll try to get that post up this week!

  • themcvays July 07, 2013

    Well, I thought there really wasn't much more ...

    Well, I thought there really wasn't much more for me to cut or creatively change but alas I am wrong. So I have some questions: Potato chips & Pretzels - what do you serve your children on the side of a sandwhich? We normally have those and pickles.Juice boxes - Do your kids have little thermos??? Basically how do you address the on the go drink? For instance our friends have a lake house and they let us use the boat what would you take out on the boat? Do you buy bottled water?Powdered drink mixes- The only one I buy is gatorade because our kiddos play sports and we live in Texas (100+). Do you make your own mixes or is this just something you do not bother with.Lunch meat. We make sandwiches from turkey and hams bought under $1 a pound instead. - where did you get your slicer? I haven't seen one at goodwill or any place like that.It looks like I need to learn to make yogurt! thanks for the encouragement it's always easier to walk a path when you aren't alone.Blessings my friend!Kyle

  • bananaorangeapple July 07, 2013

    In Australia powdered milk costs more per litre th...

    In Australia powdered milk costs more per litre than fresh milk. Which makes sense I guess as it needs more processing.

  • bananaorangeapple July 07, 2013

    I have heavy clay soil too, so whenever I plant so...

    I have heavy clay soil too, so whenever I plant something I mix in gypsum (clay breaker) and some organic matter to give my plants a headstart

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